公关种种

November 25, 2010 | Filed Under Article | 2 Comments 

若不是方才雪莲的电话,我倒也忘了有投稿一事。最近代理一职,我新官上任,忙得焦头烂额。主办方的消息总是模棱两可,让我两边都无法交代,除了干等,别无他法。渐渐明白之前总道听有人三更挑灯,四更未眠,鲜有休憩,皆非戏言。

想起雪莲刚刚的话,我便想笑。她的意思,叫我直呼名字,省去姐前姐后。在别人面前,我虽是大胆嘲弄雪莲,私底下要我真的直呼名字,却时常口舌龃龉,让她怀疑移动信号不畅,中途静音。仍记得她曾嘱咐,在我第一次奉命拜见瓶子的时候,“你直呼瓶子的花名便可,切忌加上师兄二字,过多礼节,反而隔阂横生,不好议事。”

我当时纳闷,对方贵为主席师兄,自己却一介草民,雪莲此举,着实让人不明。直到后来同行灵山,在返城的时候,我跟瓶子谈起此事,他微微一笑,默认雪莲的意思。我每每在楼道看见主席,瓶子两字也呼的理直气壮。

在我们部里,除了我之外,每个人都顺其自然地叫雪莲,于是她偶尔听到生硬的两个字,自是出自我口。且置雪莲怕青春不再于一边,我只是觉得,有些人直呼名字很是顺口,有些人的名字却让张口的人别扭,旁人不说,谈及自己,我很喜欢自己的名字,金威金威,即便十五年前一深圳厂家无心插柳,弄得我每次在生人面前介绍自己,只能陪着对方蹙眉苦笑。我还是很珍惜这个名字,且一直坚信这三个字是我命里的光芒,我无法失去的屏障。回归开头“雪莲”二字,我倒也不是怕有欺上犯下之嫌,只是习惯叫师姐,就好像我习惯呼李某诗做诗姐,两者同音,意味不一,或许单单顺我口舌而已。若我唤前者作莲姐,恐怕未传到她的耳朵,我两颗智齿早已含笑九泉。想想也挺好,可省去我平日买阿莫西林的钱,真得改天试试。只怕到时,若门牙也随之而去,雪莲此人,可就罪孽深重。

自从我侥幸通过公关二面那一天起,志协内部的老饼小饼,没有花名的,只占少数。个中原因,倒也因人而异,我才疏学浅,自是明细不了。在第一次被雪莲晓诗骗去韶关之后,那个带点洋味的叠音雅号,便挂在我头上。后来在协会内部虽中规中矩,恪守己道,可活动一多,推辞不了,难免抛头露面于众人面前。时日一长,韬光养晦已不是办法,随着花名如泛滥江水汇入大海,最初的抵抗转眼俯首称臣。“挂”这个字,如今恐怕换成“刻”,才能稍稍减少我这拙篇里众多错误的一处。谈及他人,或雪莲,或诗姐,我何曾不苦心孤诣,皱眉捏造她们的花名,好满足我小人之心,雪仇解恨。静主席看我为此所困,曾在灵山闭关时指点一二,我本想学姑苏慕容,以彼之道,还施彼身,于雪莲头上生搬硬套类似雅号。可时日一长,却发现她不以为然,自己却叫得百般别扭。猛然清醒,恨不得狠狠扫自己耳光,造谣做作,无端生事。若隔墙有耳,一传十百,坏了自己自是死有余辜,可害了静主席和雪莲的英名,我如何担当得起?公关男儿于人前历来光明磊落,坦坦荡荡,我侥幸占得一席,却犯下如此行径,若不立马点到为止,尘封过失,一旦大错铸成,惹起嫌隙,岂不让狼子野心有机可乘?

说到狼子野心,想起自己在平日里,喜欢于人前讲拓展之辈如何如何,大肆渲染心中反戈意志。可私底下,就好比我不叫那个叫雪莲的女子叫雪莲一样,在众人面前的之言片语,实违我心。古人曰:责之深,爱之切。我平日倒戈拓展,等同鄙夷公关。虽对公关之恋不深,但对拓展之爱,完全是子虚乌有,无稽之谈。拓公一说,更是引人发笑的噱头。两个部门,平日略有往来,而意味难免逢场作戏,碍于公事压顶,如黄连入口,苦不堪言。想起当初,皇榜初揭,我立于城门,苦苦思量。纵观志协,阴盛阳衰,掌权者大多女流之辈,表面相安无事,可一旦战乱纷争,主席师兄和秘书张部长唯有苦苦支撑,感概有心无力。分观四部,我非才智,可也窥见端倪,秘书文弱,资传崇洋,此乃不争事实。唯有公拓二部,合我本性。可拓展掌门曹大人乃我直系师姐,若只身投往,她碍于情面,予我个一官半职,自然不在话下。一旦日后头顶乌纱,我却难免遭他人白眼,坐立难安,寝食不顺。加之我细看拓展职能,竟与公关有重复之嫌,所涉及领域却无公关之深,公关之全。若事事浅尝辄止,无法独挡一面,又怎是我心之所向?

试想转投公关,虽人生路陌,形单影只,可也正好检验自身。古之将才,孰谁无立“天将降大任于斯人也”之志向。况且来去如风,岂不快哉?

如今,我于公关也将一年,事事无法皆顺,甚至有异于当初之所想。每每此时,我扪心安慰,若当初投其他三部,彼时的烦恼恐怕千倍于此。方抑郁尽散,不再无谓懊恼。现距助理的任期结束还有不到一个星期,诗姐雪莲常常放不下牵挂,督促再三。皆因本人着实毛躁,非栋梁之才,难安人心。不过我心里明了,认真做一件事,平日可能办不到。临近致仕,若我仍安不下此二人的心,恐怕妇孺耻笑。

我属公关,誓死效忠。

临表涕零,不知所言。



TPE Theory

November 23, 2010 | Filed Under Life | Leave a Comment 

Tue.Windy

My lntensive-Listening teacher Miss Xu prefers us to do a presentation with a one-page ppt. At first, I was quite confused why a two or more pages ppt was not allowed. After she explained the TPE theory today, I change my idea. I think the one-page thing is somehow reasonable.

Here comes the theory:

Firstly, “T” means “Topic”. When you want to tell other something, you should have a topic which is all you based on.

Secondly, “P” means “Point”. According to the thing or phenomenon you would like to share with others, you will surely have your own idea. Despite of the same event or affair, everyone have their point of views. Generally, most of them are different. That is to say, your point of views about the topic is something that makes you different. It is your most important part of your presentation.

Finally, “E” means “Example”. In order to convince your ideas more trustworthy, more reasonable, nothing can be used except the examples. An example can attract the audiences’ attention and make your words more well-founded. Most importantly, it will give a powerful support to your point of view.

That’s the “TPE” theory. No matter you agree or not, I think it serve us a clear and simple method to prepare for our presentation. According to this theory, I mean, a one-page ppt looks quite easy and easy to be accepted by the audience. A complicate problem may become easy to understand and a simple topic may be filled with relaxation.

My presentation time has not come yet. But I think I will try this theory and make an interactive one with a one-page ppt.



两年不见

November 20, 2010 | Filed Under Life | Leave a Comment 

我还清楚的记得上次看到Jing,已经是两年前的事了。那时正好高考后拍毕业照,白色的衬衣,歪着头,我俩都不知道下一次见面竟须等到这个时候。

昨晚懊悔着上次弄坏了硬盘丢了之前所有的照片,怕今早认不出Jing来。还好,除了微卷的头发,她没有太大的变化。去年住在别处,今年才搬来广州,虽说两年,可总感觉她高中时烙下的模样,如我一般,并没有完全褪去。或许这是一种好的现象,至少说明我们还年轻,哪怕只是在自我感觉上。

这边的地儿实在没有什么好玩,顶多是许多学校聚在一起,撑起了名气罢了。要数出一两个留得住人印象的地方,着实还真没有。

无所谓啦,看看那些学校,已经很好了。

我借上Nick的卡和紫康的车,尽可能带她多绕些地方。

大一的时候,特别是刚买单车的那段日子,我总喜欢兜着外中内环跑。若不是像今天Jing来,我可能整个大二自己都不会出来再兜一次。

好久没迷路在优弧与劣弧里,好久没吃圣代和麦乐鸡,好久没这么没顾忌地说这么多汕头话,好久没过这么惬意的星期六,难得有一红颜陪你聊那些平日不会聊的东西,又何必想那几本该死的厚厚的书我还没看呢?高一下学期的新校舍,新的高中生活,我一直庆幸当时做出的正确决定,哪怕我家距离老校区只需五分钟的单车。我魔咒般的三年八班,开始第一个的时候,便是Jing坐在前边的时候。

当聊到这些的时候,我们都发现,原来有很多同学已经失去了联系,不熟的,相熟的,早已屈指可数了。感叹时间真是个可怕的东西,在我们还这么年轻的时候,便已见识它的利害。如若真的时过境迁,荏苒不留,我们又该如何苍白是好?

我们要好好享受大学,它越是飞逝,我们越要珍惜。

赞成,换了个男人点的说法,在我们没有能力对付未知的未来的时候,我希望大学可以尽可能的漫长。

说完我俩都自然地笑了。

绕完了整个环,太阳低了红了,四周暗了。

你可以回去了 不要等到周围真的暗了

你是不是想赶我走

当然 这个想法我昨晚就有了 只是不好意思说嘛 你看 你一来我多麻烦啊

你找死啊

我喜欢开这种对方能理解的笑话,它总能让说的人和听的人都会心一笑。毕竟那份默契,那类反语,我们早已明白。若我们没有这份默契,我可不会白痴到为了博别人一笑体现自己风趣而冒予人不悦的险。

Jing挤着满是人的巴士,空着肚子,回校了。

上次见你是两年的事 不知下次见又是什么时候

下次不要这么久才见面了

希望下次我见到你的时候 能多了点不一样

越变越好

 



Weekend Time

November 5, 2010 | Filed Under Life | Leave a Comment 

Another weekend is coming.

I must revise the textbook I left before. Sometime I touch the keyboard more than my pen. I scan the website more than my book. The more I spend in the computer, the less time I have. I am just a kind of person who can only clam down in the library but not before a flashing screen. I am likely to do more in a quiet place.

Anyway, it is necessary to do my revision this weekend. Otherwise, it will be left too much when the exam comes.

Weekend time? May be Library time.



The Two Things

November 4, 2010 | Filed Under Life | Leave a Comment 

Thu.Windy

“Once there was a college student,” said one of my economy teacher in class, “he only did the flowing two things,”

“One is being in the dorm, the other is on the way to the dorm.”

All of the class burst into laugh.

It’s quite a funny joke. I am not sure whether there are some students being lazy like that. At least he should go to the canteen or somewhere, I think. The two things of that guy just trigger me a lot in my brain.

“How many things do I do every day and where have I been?”

The dorm, the library, the classroom, the canteen, the playground… Should I list out as detail as the toilet?

Obviously, I am not as lazy as the guy my teacher described. Though I am not the top student here, I am really satisfied with what I have now. Maybe sometimes in my life comes something unhappy. For instant, I failed in some competitions or I lost something I am fed up with. But it is not a big deal. My failure and losing are just telling myself that I still have the chances to make a progress before a bigger failure appears. If I learn something from my mistake and take advantage of it, I might be different from others.

The campus life will quickly pass as time swiftly flies. I should fill it something meaningful, otherwise, I will absolutely regret when I become old because there will not have another four years for me to be a student.

Finally, I think I have the two things of my own:

One is to have a life of your own, the other is to enjoy it and never regret in the future.



Hair Cut

November 3, 2010 | Filed Under Life | 1 Comment 

Wed.Windy

When I think it is time to have a new start, I like to have my hair cut, no matter how long or short my hair is.

Maybe it seems too weird to you. But, for me, it really works.

I still remember how unwilling I would feel sitting at the barber’s chair when I was a little boy. However, my mom forced me to do that. After the cutting, I would look like a monk because of not much hair left. When my mom saw her monk son back, she would nod with a smile. In her opinion, this kind of boy is clean and honest, and sure to give others an impression of integrity.

I do not agree with her all. It is all right to say a monk is a clean guy. But as I am concerned, it doesn’t do something with the quality such as honest, integrity. Have we ever seen a bald man telling lies?

Of course yes!

After I grow up day by day, my mom thinly leaves myself to handle my own stuff. I decide when and where and even how to have my hair cut. When I fail in something, I try my best to recover quickly and focus on the newly coming challenges. Usually, I use a new hair style as a signal of my reappearance.

When I have it cut, maybe it looks a little weird for others. But I can sense the breeze blowing through my head, which is very comfortable. And I don’t have to waste time in washing my hair when I get up because it is too short to be in a mess.

Most importantly, the hair cutting is a signal that is always reminding myself I am back. I stand up from where I fell down and absolutely, promise myself to move forward without any hesitation.



Little Little May

November 1, 2010 | Filed Under Life | Leave a Comment 

“Little Little May” is someone’ signature updated recently.

How time flies. It has been one and a half years since I saw May in a picture.

He is only 7 years older than me, but I think we are just two persons of different worlds. I am not familiar with his stuff. All the information I know about him is conveyed by Vivi, a mysterious woman. I know he has a decent job with the possibility of waking up at midnight for a crime or other police stuff. And I just focus on nothing but my study. I only met him once and talked with him for no more than 5 minutes.

Despite of what I have said above, I was really impressed by his modest face many days ago. He is not as handsome a guy as Brad Pitt, but I can conclude he is not a conceited guy or a dumb person, for which they are the most unbearable persons characters for me in the world.

He has his job and I have my own study to fight for. It’s reasonable that we have no much time meeting each other before.

I really hope he has a healthy body and a happy life.

Anyway, I am sure we will be closed in future. Why? Because of the mysterious woman.



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